Whaddup folk,
so at the urging of my significant other i decided to try this whole blogging thing out! Actually I'm not new to blogging as I've done a few post on myspace but very new to Blogspot. Regardless though over the years of my maturation into a somewhat "ghettofied," (LOL dayum i know that its not a real word!!!) manhood one powerful lesson sticks out in all the things my grandmother taught me: K.I.S.S. or Keep It Simple Stupid!!!! She was right, we as beings tend to turn very simple situations into complex melodrama reruns of " Days of our lives in the general hospital somewhere the world is turning!" Thus this brings me to my current juncture. So two of my coworkers Anita, and Stefan, and Stefan's significant other Juan, and myself currently occupy a three bedroom apartment near Gotham City. Now the greatest common denominator of our household issues is poor to lack of communication. If we could simply sit down as grown adults, that we claim to be, we can DISCUSS AND VOICE or opinions, concerns, and observations we would not be in the situation we are in now!
So picture it Stefan and Juan both younger than 25 (yeah i know youngins) have been in a dysfunctional relationship for the past year and a couple months. Now i don't judge them for it; they make it work for them. (Its their world I just fly around it!!) The problem within this dysfunctionality however lies within one there age, to their little to lack of trust, and recently their argument escalating to physical violence. (Please understand i do not condone an individual who has to put their on another person to get their points across) It has been recent occurrences of physical violence that has drastically disrupted our house hold. Anita and myself have both bared witness to these theatrical throw downs and even confronted both Stefan and Juan about their actions and the consequences that may fellow. Both agreed to try to keep it drama free. This relative "roma paxa" lasted maybe a couple of months before a week ago Anita is a witness to one of the worst fight scenes Stefan and Juan since Ana May Bullock and Ike Turner. Anita and I have had a side conversation as to how to handle the situation, but she decided to stop speaking to both. Meanwhile we agreed that in order for the situation to be addressed it should be her to do it because she comes across with more tact than myself. (Don't hate me cause I'm blunt!!) So moving forward Anita has stopped speaking to Stefan and Juan, Stefan is upset and wants to reconcile the situation but cant get Anita to speak to him so now Juan thinks that Stefan's "said anger" is being funneled into him because of Anita not speaking!!
Again had we just K.I.S.Sed this whole debacle wouldn't have even gotten this far. I'm tryin not to turn into the "angry black man and start cussing folk out," but that will be very very counter productive!! So ima ride this storm out for the moment. Ya know situations like this one make me realize why i can't live with others! I NEED MY OWN SPACE!!! LOL.
On the Academic front i know its that time of the year cause im getting madd lazy and pretty much have 3 papers and presentation and Organic BioChemstry exam all comming up within days of each other! Not complaining though I'm a get my focus back and start getting shyt done, for lack of better wording!
Finally, Why is my life starting to come together but in sections. Don't get me wrong again very grateful.... on the romantic front i think i may have found "THE shorty" that is willing to hold me down for the time being... at the urging of many caring friends we're taking it slow and letting it flow gradually....
Well there u have it WritingzNEffekts the premier edition.... Forth coming posts shouldn't be as dramatic as this one but hey a bruh had to get some things off my chest... (So Shorty you were right this is therapeutic).... and let me know what u think... So until the next time take care of yourselves and be Prosperous!!
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